AGAPE

I’ve learned couple of things lately/over the past several months and I thought that I would share.

#1- Guys don’t like it when girls wear a lot of make-up. I’ve been told lately that I wear too much-I don’t think I do but I’ve been told otherwise. I’ll over ear guys talking about girls and how they need to remove the mask off their face…whatever!!! So girls don’t wear too much make-up guys don’t like it and the guys that do will be more into themselves them you.

#2-Guys don’t like really skinny girls. I only know of two guys that like skinny girl. I’ve heard from numerous men that say they want a girl with a little meat on her bones.  My sister kept telling me this but I didn’t believe it until I heard it for myself from men.

#3-Guys are attracted to what they see….as men are visual and women fall for what they hear….men appreciate a good looking woman. Beauty comes in all shapes and sizes, colors, hair-stylesJ. But a good personality and self confidence can get about any guy….ladies to just look at your self in the mirror and say, “Dam, I look good today,” and get the boost of confidence you need to get the man you’ve been lingering after.

That’s all I’ve learned so far….God don’t let me get ME!!!!

I have a confession….and this is going to be weird. I not racist nor have I ever been racist. Furthermore, I’ve never really been attracted to black men and I don’t know why. For example, I would be walking down the street and I would see a black man and think to myself, “he is cute,” but nothing more and I would continue walking. But something has changed. Lately I have been SO attracted to black men and I don’t know why. For example, I’ll be walking down that same street see a black man and think to myself, “Dam his is cute, I wouldn’t mind going out with him.” This change I have no idea how it stared or how it occurred.  I’m confused….I’m confused. I was raised to never judge someone by the color of their skin. I think that is the most stupidest thing… I don’t know. I don’t care if a man is pink, purple, blue, red as long as he treats me good; that’s all I need. Changes, changing , changed…….GOD don’t let me get ME!

 To be truly happiness you need love and forgiveness and you can’t have one without the other. AU-

PS Wilma and Fred are still alive!